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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Life Coach , writes… …
Maybe you have been told about the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. I am talking about the sort of mindset that says “if I can’t have something, you cannot either.” It’s a way of invalidating someone else’s happiness by dragging them down to their inadequacy. This often gets expressed by a friend or family member who doesn’t approve of or discourages you from reaching for a greater achievement or going beyond what’s usually the norm for the culture. Everyone’s been there.
It is similar in a tribal mindset. The tribe is used to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Every member has an explicitly defined and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to reach beyond (as is our very nature) you actually risked the safety of the tribe. You are taught: “I cannot expand beyond what the tribe needs of me, otherwise I would be cast out and suffer certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for many miles.
However, you are wired to create. Your inherent nature is to expand, express, desire, and manifest. Then reach for another fun thing or dream to reach. I’ve read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have heard the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It would seem that our nature and our cultural values are conflicted with one another.
It is no wonder contradicting beliefs, critical mental monologue and fear of success haunt us from time to time. It’s been stamped into our programming. This is known as cognitive dissonance. It is like interference from your mind when you have many opposing ideas at the same time. This dissonance becomes detrimental and desires resolution. It gets resolved in one of two ways. Either by falling back on old, known patterns, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your outlook with great life coaching.
It’s a small wonder with the programs we’ve inherited that it can be so hard to make any effective change. The truth is, it is not your fault. Do not blame yourself and pile more negativity on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are supremely rewarding and fulfilling past your most wonderful fantasies! Think of a partner who is everything you have ever wanted in a partner.
It’s not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to take your power back. You’ve always had the ability to decide who you are and control that. Your mind is attractive. And even more intensely, your thoughts coupled with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the limiting programs in the face and boldly choose another possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
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